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13 Nov 07

epic0002

Black Mark

walking to and fro

Joined: 02 Aug 05
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13 Nov 07

P A T H E T I C... let your balls drop first

rbmorris

Vampyroteuthis

Infernalis

Joined: 13 Apr 04
Moves: 100486

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Bad wolf
It's quite hard sometimes, especially when it's like your first time asking someone out, let's not mock him...

I just try to think about baseball.

~~Dutch Defense~~

Stealer of Souls

Waiting for You

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13 Nov 07

Originally posted by rbmorris
I just try to think about baseball.

we both like baseball 🙂

rbmorris

Vampyroteuthis

Infernalis

Joined: 13 Apr 04
Moves: 100486

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Dutch Defense
we both like baseball 🙂

Then grab your balls and don't forget to wear a glove.

Bad wolf

Joined: 23 Jul 05
Moves: 8869

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by rbmorris
Taking advice from Bad wolf on this topic, is like taking driving lessons from Stevie Wonder.

Wow...how offensive.

Bad wolf

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Moves: 8869

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Dutch Defense
so you're saying I don't need to do the coffee thing?

As you said, you don't drink coffee...I think that is reason enough.

~~Dutch Defense~~

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13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Bad wolf
As you said, you don't drink coffee...I think that is reason enough.

The coffee isn't the point. I need to know if I should still ask her to a short 30 minute talk at a coffee shop since she's already a friend.

Ironstar

Club 64

Joined: 03 Sep 06
Moves: 1437

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Dutch Defense
The coffee isn't the point. I need to know if I should still ask her to a short 30 minute talk at a coffee shop since she's already a friend.

You're right...skip the coffee....go for hot chocolate...I haven't met a girl who didn't love hot chocolate....and with the winter months coming soon, the timing is perfect. Seize the moment.

Yet I'm surprised you don't drink much coffee. Most people I know started at like 10 or something.

huckleberryhound

Devout Agnostic.

DZ-015

Joined: 12 Oct 05
Moves: 42584

13 Nov 07

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I'm not one to give 14 year olds advice on dating, but anytime i asked for advice i was told "Let it happen in it's own time", and "Just be yourself"....Didn't do me much good right enough.

Bad wolf

Joined: 23 Jul 05
Moves: 8869

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Dutch Defense
The coffee isn't the point. I need to know if I should still ask her to a short 30 minute talk at a coffee shop since she's already a friend.

It's not something I would do, but you two might like that sort of thing.
I can't stand coffee myself, yeah, perhaps hot chocolate...

Ironstar

Club 64

Joined: 03 Sep 06
Moves: 1437

13 Nov 07

Originally posted by Bad wolf
It's not something I would do, but you two might like that sort of thing.
I can't stand coffee myself, yeah, perhaps hot chocolate...

yeah...what he said...go for the hot chocolate...you're a shoo-in if you add marshmallows...

Bad wolf

Joined: 23 Jul 05
Moves: 8869

14 Nov 07

Originally posted by Ironstar
yeah...what he said...go for the hot chocolate...you're a shoo-in if you add marshmallows...

Hmm, maybe, though I question any girl that bases her decision on marshmallows...

Anyway, good luck Dutch, do what you think is best, and relax...

Goodnight. 😴

Iron Monkey

Primal Primate

holiest of holies

Joined: 05 Nov 07
Moves: 6631

14 Nov 07

Originally posted by Dutch Defense
I'm 14, we don't quite drink coffee yet, but I get your point. 😕

if you're 14, can't u just ask her if she wants to hang out at the mall?

huckleberryhound

Devout Agnostic.

DZ-015

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Moves: 42584

14 Nov 07

Originally posted by Iron Monkey
if you're 14, can't u just ask her if she wants to hang out at the mall?

Or tell her friend, that usually works 😛

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14 Nov 07

Thanks for the advice everyone! 😀