Originally posted by kirksey957Not at all, kirksey. We want a man who understands that sometimes we just need to be hugged. WE need men to share with us. Men who can open up and share what the experience. Don't you sometimes just need a woman to take you in her arms and say "It's ok."?
OK, if I'm hearing you right, what women want (minus the sex) is daddy.
Originally posted by bbarrPretty much. My female hamsters are even that way (always nipping at my fingers... evil things). But some of us aren't like that! I know several of us who would much rather be alone than having someone hanging on them. I hope I never get married... 😛
Ok, if I'm hearing you right, women are spoiled brats who want to be treated like princesses even when they throw tantrums.
I am sensing some pent-up hostility here. I posted this after reading Shavi's thread in the debates about women. I thought I would give you some insight into what can easily solve the rough patches we all go through in relationships.
So tell me, guys, what do YOU want from a woman (not that either)?
You know, the world isn't the kindest of places anymore, and people have learned to be hard. We have learned to put up walls to protect ourselves. I am sure all of you have come home from a hard day at work where you would very much like to kill or at least maim someone. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone at home give you a hug and a kiss? you know to help you make the transition fromhard shelled worker to soft shelled human?
An another thing! Women are spoiled brats because they want to be cuddled and held and treated with respect and love??
It makes me sad to think you would think so. I would have thought that is what everyone wants?
And another another thing! Some of this post was meant in jest, you know. I would hate to think that women would actually withhold sex unless they get just what they want.
I am not saying women want to be right all the time, but, amaziingly enough, sometimes Men are wrong! (I know, it is hard to believe, isn't it). So, sometimes, just say you are sorry. And, if you ever bother to read that "women are from Venus , Men are from Uranus" oops sorry, Mars (That as a joke), you will see that women sometimes need to vent and not have someone try to solve the problem , but rather just to listen and be comforting!!!
Solution (only if you're a born loser, with no friends, and has no idea what a woman actually looks like) : Buy SimCity 4. I bought it, and realised, "Gee, I could sell this to thousands of geeks and nerds, who could vent their anger out on this, instead of somehow finding a woman, to give us real men less competition.". You can target the little sims and sim-cars with lightning bolts.
Originally posted by Remora91I love your avatar, rachel. What is it?
Pretty much. My female hamsters are even that way (always nipping at my fingers... evil things). But some of us aren't like that! I know several of us who would much rather be alone than having someone hanging on them. I hope I never get married... 😛
Someday, you will probably want to be married, and you will find a wonderful man who loves you and wants to be with you and share his life with you always. 😀
Originally posted by elvendreamgirlNo, the women you describe are spoiled brats if whenever they are upset they cry rather than fix what's wrong, and then get their man to say "I'm sorry". The women I know are not spoiled brats, in that they are able to recognize when they are in error, they are more concerned with fixing the things that make them upset than crying about them, and they realize that being romantic is a two-way street. In short, the women I know are reasonable adults.
An another thing! Women are spoiled brats because they want to be cuddled and held and treated with respect and love??
It makes me sad to think you would think so. I would have thought that is what everyone wants?
Originally posted by elvendreamgirlHehehe. Thanks. It's Thunder Over Louisville (largest fireworks show in the country in my home town!). 😀
I love your avatar, rachel. What is it?
Someday, you will probably want to be married, and you will find a wonderful man who loves you and wants to be with you and share his life with you always. 😀
Originally posted by bbarrNope, women, l;ike men, want to be abnle to blow off steam, rant, get upset, argue with their men, and still feel loved and nurtured.
Ok, if I'm hearing you right, women are spoiled brats who want to be treated like princesses even when they throw tantrums.
I am getting the feeling that everyone thinks I am a "princess". Maybe I do come off that way. But I am a princess then who has had a rough go of it in many ways. I am not spoiled., I work hard for everything I get. I have always worked hard to make good grades. I work very hard at my job.
I don't have much money, I struggle with my illness.
I have watched my father and my brother die. I have never been treated as a princess. When I come on rhp, I enjoy being silly. I know that nothing I say here will change the world. I just hope to make people laugh, and maybe sometimes to make them think.
Originally posted by bbarrGee, I'd like to own me one of those!!!
No, the women you describe are spoiled brats if whenever they are upset they cry rather than fix what's wrong, and then get their man to say "I'm sorry". The women I know are not spoiled brats, in that they are able to recognize when they are in error, they are more concerned with fixing the things that make them upset than crying about them, and they realize that being romantic is a two-way street. In short, the women I know are reasonable adults.
Originally posted by elvendreamgirlI agree. And I think everyone needs a good cry now and then, even men. Sometimes people cry over something they can't fix, and that's when I get most frustrated and upset. I guess I can relate to this in some way; whenever I'm unhappy I want my hamster Bob to be there for me, and he makes me feel better. 🙂
Nope, women, l;ike men, want to be abnle to blow off steam, rant, get upset, argue with their men, and still feel loved and nurtured.
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Originally posted by The Slow PawnHey, good post and I can sympathize with you. Where I am from you can't smile at a woman without getting a dirty look or the customary: "what you staring at" reply. Many of them bat for the other side or are, strictly single or seeing someone else. Its all too complicated these days. I think its a far cry from the old romantic in a 50's film that swept his woman off her feet. Women seem to want more and it just seems too complicated these days.
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that was actually quite a sweet post of you. Unfortunately those women don't exist in our modern society anymore (or at least I can't find them) ... Just the other week I held the door open for a woman in the sup ...[text shortened]... etween 24-36 and not too chabby) let me know and I'll hold the door open again ;-)
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