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@fmf said
What defines you?
Son of Satan (robbie carrobie)
Worse than Satan (Galveston75) **
Diabolical (Startreader)
Morals of a lynch mob murderer (robbie carrobie)
Troll (Grampy Bobby)
Liar (Startreader)
Mocker (KellyJay)
Fool (KellyJay)
Evil (Startreader)
Criminalising people (Suzianne)
Character assassinator (Suzianne)
Systematic torturer (Startreader)
Actual sadist (Startreader) **
Enemy of God (Josephw)
Christian basher (Josephw)
A$$hole (SecondSon)
Underminer of other people's faith (Lemon Lime)
Monster (Lemon Lime)
Narcissist (Lemon Lime)
Deserving of burning in hell for eternity (RJHinds) ***
Blinded with pride (sonship)
Understanding nothing (sonship)
Diseased with questionings (sonship)
Career opposers of servants of God (sonship)
Corrupt in mind (sonship)
Divisive poster (Russ) **
Racist (several posters in debates)
Bigot (ditto)
Moron (ditto)

** favourites
*** for not believing in “burning in hell for eternity”

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@divegeester said
Son of Satan (robbie carrobie)
Worse than Satan (Galveston75) **
Diabolical (Startreader)
Morals of a lynch mob murderer (robbie carrobie)
Troll (Grampy Bobby)
Liar (Startreader)
Mocker (KellyJay)
Fool (KellyJay)
Evil (Startreader)
Criminalising people (Suzianne)
Character assassinator (Suzianne)
Systematic torturer (Startreader)
Actual sadist (Star ...[text shortened]... got (ditto)
Moron (ditto)

** favourites
*** for not believing in “burning in hell for eternity”
Gollumpus (karoly akzel)
Puff Gut (RJHinds)
Lobcock (Taoman)
Beard Splitter (scherzo)
Gay (chaney3)

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Gollumpus (karoly akzel)
Puff Gut (RJHinds)
Lobcock (Taoman)
Beard Splitter (scherzo)
Gay (chaney3)
“Lobcock” carries a certain congruence; perhaps it’s your Hobbit name? As does “Gollumpus” actually ...

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It was a long walk from his grassy-knoll ramshackle home in Liversbottom to the lumberyard where he had worked for over 60 years and Gollumpus Lobcock, or “Gollycock” as he was known at the yard, was sick of it.

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@fmf said
What defines you?

The question can be tackled on any level you want.
I am what I think, say and do.

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@divegeester said
Son of Satan (robbie carrobie)
Worse than Satan (Galveston75) **
Diabolical (Startreader)
Morals of a lynch mob murderer (robbie carrobie)
Troll (Grampy Bobby)
Liar (Startreader)
Mocker (KellyJay)
Fool (KellyJay)
Evil (Startreader)
Criminalising people (Suzianne)
Character assassinator (Suzianne)
Systematic torturer (Startreader)
Actual sadist (Star ...[text shortened]... got (ditto)
Moron (ditto)

** favourites
*** for not believing in “burning in hell for eternity”
So are you claiming, even sarcastically, that others define you?

I find this somewhat sad.

Every single person who has tried to "define" me, or simply to describe their impression of me, has gotten it, in varying degrees, entirely wrong. I would hope that you find the same.

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@suzianne said
So are you claiming, even sarcastically, that others define you?
I find this somewhat sad.
I’m posting a list of how others here at RHP (including yourself) have tried to define me.

I think what is sad is that they need to resort to these type of adjectives and insults in order to do so, don’t you?

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@suzianne said
Every single person who has tried to "define" me, or simply to describe their impression of me, has gotten it, in varying degrees, entirely wrong. I would hope that you find the same.
Who has tried to define you, and how?

I’m fine thanks, I appreciate your sincerity and good wishes for my wellbeing

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I love the anthem quality of this song.

As this intimates, we all are different things to different people, as the nature of our interactions dictate. This is the answer as to why everyone who would try to define us all miss the mark, and some outrageously so. People judge others completely by their (somewhat/always) limited experience of them. We present different aspects of ourselves to different people, and I think this is driven by our particular interactions and history of interactions with that person. This is why the very same person can have fast friends and sworn enemies. This has precious little to do with "truth" or "principle" but even more to do with through what filter we choose to show ourselves to others on that particular day. We are therefore many things to many people, but this is what brings a richness to our lives. May it always be so.

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@divegeester said
Who has tried to define you, and how?

I’m fine thanks, I appreciate your sincerity and good wishes for my wellbeing
In short, everyone attempts to define everyone.

We all spend too much time trying to pigeonhole people into little categories, in order to make some order of ourselves. Too many people have no idea who they are, because they seem unwilling to embrace the complete spectrum of self. Not only do we pigeonhole others, but some would even try this technique on themselves, to their own detriment.

Now that I think on this, perhaps this (or something similar) is why I've never married. Sometimes self-introspection can be downright scary.

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@divegeester said
I’m posting a list of how others here at RHP (including yourself) have tried to define me.

I think what is sad is that they need to resort to these type of adjectives and insults in order to do so, don’t you?
When people only see the narrowest slice of someone else, they tend to define that person by that slice. People are vastly more than that, even the dullest of us, but que sera sera. Some people buy into what they hear from others and therefore start to believe they are less than what they can be.

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@suzianne said
We all spend too much time trying to pigeonhole people into little categories, in order to make some order of ourselves.
Why, then, do you do this to people if you don't want it done to you?

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@divegeester said
Son of Satan (robbie carrobie)
Worse than Satan (Galveston75) **
Diabolical (Startreader)
Morals of a lynch mob murderer (robbie carrobie)
Troll (Grampy Bobby)
Liar (Startreader)
Mocker (KellyJay)
Fool (KellyJay)
Evil (Startreader)
Criminalising people (Suzianne)
Character assassinator (Suzianne)
Systematic torturer (Startreader)
Actual sadist (Star ...[text shortened]... got (ditto)
Moron (ditto)

** favourites
*** for not believing in “burning in hell for eternity”
Wow! Sonship got five honorable mentions.

Did you ever stop to think about why there are so many posters judging you so?

Are there others receiving as much flack in these forums, or are you the most gifted?

Maybe you should consider the criticisms and examine your forum persona.

Just sayin'!

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@suzianne said
In short, everyone attempts to define everyone.

We all spend too much time trying to pigeonhole people into little categories, in order to make some order of ourselves. Too many people have no idea who they are, because they seem unwilling to embrace the complete spectrum of self. Not only do we pigeonhole others, but some would even try this technique on themselves, to ...[text shortened]... something similar) is why I've never married. Sometimes self-introspection can be downright scary.
Insightful post above.

You should have married. Then you would have had someone nearer to confess their sins to. 😉

I heard someone say we get married and then spend the rest of our lives confessing our spouse's sins to each other. It was a joke, but true in some ways.

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@suzianne said
When people only see the narrowest slice of someone else, they tend to define that person by that slice. People are vastly more than that, even the dullest of us, but que sera sera. Some people buy into what they hear from others and therefore start to believe they are less than what they can be.
Yes I agree, and this is what I think is “sad”, rather than your little dig at me for naming you as an example in my list of people who do this.

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