@pb1022 said"Seems" pointless to whom?
I didn’t say it was pointless, I said it seems pointless.
If you are projecting the idea that repairing a marriage "seems pointless" to non-believers then you are dehumanizing them.
If you are confessing that repairing a marriage "seems pointless" to you [without your religious beliefs] then you are making a startling revelation about your own mentality and moral core.
06 Mar 22
@fmf saidIf you had a troubled relationship with someone and you knew for a fact that you would die two days later, are you saying fixing that troubled relationship (say it wouldn’t be easy to fix and you couldn’t disclose to the other person that you were going to die two days later) wouldn’t seem kind of pointless?
Speak for yourself, by all means. Sounds like you are indulging in a wee bit of dehumanization of people who don't share your beliefs here.
I am a non-believer and I have no belief in the afterlife; the "promise of eternal life" has no effect on how I live my life.
Do you really think that the desire to "repair" my marriage, if it needed it, would be "pointless" [1] if I thought about how I could die the next day, and [2] if I did not believe in everlasting life?
@pb1022 saidNo. If my wife and I were struggling in some way and I then heard that I "knew for a fact that [I] would die two days later", I believe those two days would be filled with reconciliation and celebration of our 28 years together. For you to suggest this would "seem kind of pointless" is either you attempting to dehumanize people like me [and my wife] OR you are inadvertently dehumanizing yourself.
If you had a troubled relationship with someone and you knew for a fact that you would die two days later, are you saying fixing that troubled relationship (say it wouldn’t be easy to fix and you couldn’t disclose to the other person that you were going to die two days later) wouldn’t seem kind of pointless?
06 Mar 22
@fmf saidSeems pointless to me.
"Seems" pointless to whom?
If you are projecting the idea that repairing a marriage "seems pointless" to non-believers then you are dehumanizing them.
If you are confessing that repairing a marriage "seems pointless" to you [without your religious beliefs] then you are making a startling revelation about your own mentality and moral core.
And I can’t put myself in the mindset of an atheist so I’m obviously not speaking for them nor do I know how I would feel about it if I were one.
06 Mar 22
@fmf said<<I believe those two days would be filled with reconciliation and celebration of our 28 years together.>>
No. If my wife and I were struggling in some way and I then heard that I "knew for a fact that [I] would die two days later", I believe those two days would be filled with reconciliation and celebration of our 28 years together. For you to suggest this would "seem kind of pointless" is either you attempting to dehumanize people like me [and my wife] OR you are inadvertently dehumanizing yourself.
This is why I put the caveat in that you couldn’t disclose to the other person that you’d die two days later.
06 Mar 22
@fmf saidSure. This life, to me, has no meaning without God.
What a revealing thing to admit! As I said: Unguarded Self-Revelation of the Day™
You know who else felt the same way? Solomon, considered by some to be the wisest man who ever lived.
Just check the last chapter of Ecclesiastes.
06 Mar 22
@fmf saidSure it does.
You're digging yourself-hole even deeper. Your "caveat" makes no difference.
If you couldn’t disclose to the person whom you were trying to reconcile with that you’d die in two days, I hardly think she’d be willing to spend those two days celebrating your relationship with each other.