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what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's really not sure if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...

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Originally posted by domino971
what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's reall ...[text shortened]... if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...
Im lost can you repeat that?😞

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Originally posted by domino971
what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's reall ...[text shortened]... if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...
Take nothing for granted. Ask. If she can't ask then it can't be much of a relationship.

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Originally posted by pawnhandler
Take nothing for granted. Ask. If she can't ask then it can't be much of a relationship.
but what if she's scared that it might make things just slightly awkward? above all else, friendship is something sacred to her...

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One up for the boys 😛

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Originally posted by domino971
but what if she's scared that it might make things just slightly awkward? above all else, friendship is something sacred to her...
Dude.. its your sister... LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!!!

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Originally posted by epic0002
Dude.. its your sister... LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!!!
i am not his sister! what are you talking about?

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Originally posted by domino971
but what if she's scared that it might make things just slightly awkward? above all else, friendship is something sacred to her...
Of course it's awkward. Life is awkward. So spend the rest of your life wondering instead. 😛

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Originally posted by domino971
i am not his sister! what are you talking about?
I think if you're asking chess players for dating advice, you should do what any good girl eventually does.....doink his best friend, why wait till yous are married 😛

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let's put it this way, would you rather lose one of your best friends completely because you took a risk and it didn't turn out right, or at least have some satisfaction in knowing that they care for you as a friend. even if you are constantly thinking about how you wish you were more, you would at least have that much...

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I think if you're asking chess players for dating advice, you should do what any good girl eventually does.....doink his best friend, why wait till yous are married 😛
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Originally posted by domino971
let's put it this way, would you rather lose one of your best friends completely because you took a risk and it didn't turn out right, or at least have some satisfaction in knowing that they care for you as a friend. even if you are constantly thinking about how you wish you were more, you would at least have that much...
Why are you asking a bunch of guys?.... you are lucky I don't put a plate of Buffalo Wings on top of your head and call it a night😛

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I think if you're asking chess players for dating advice, you should do what any good girl eventually does.....doink his best friend, why wait till yous are married 😛
no. i actually do have more self esteem than that.


and as for the chess players, well am i not also a chess player? and yet here i am, asking for advice. just because you play chess does not necessarily mean that you are old or completely and totally ununderstanding! i know of several young people on this site... well, at least as young as is allowed...😵

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Originally posted by domino971
what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's reall ...[text shortened]... if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...
Wait. They're teens but they're exes for about 10 years? When were they dating? When they were 7-ish?

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Originally posted by domino971
no. i actually do have more self esteem than that.


and as for the chess players, well am i not also a chess player? and yet here i am, asking for advice. just because you play chess does not necessarily mean that you are old or completely and totally ununderstanding! i know of several young people on this site... well, at least as young as is allowed...😵
Well, considering you've known this guy since you were a baby, and you've been his ex for 10 years...either he should be in jail, or you're not much younger than me buddy.


edit....dang fastposted again 😞

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