18 Feb 08
so... i got one straight answer. that i should try it...
i'll thank you all for your time, for you caused me much amusement, and withdraw until someone else should decide to pull this up and post upon it. i enjoyed out chat though... now, just to work up the gut to tell that great guy i'm crazy about him...
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971Opinion: Tell the guy exactly how you feel. Tell him the whole thing. Tell him how much you appreciate his friendship and what it means to you, and how you are scared of messing it all up here. And tell him how you want it to be more than that. If you don't you will regret it.
i don't necessarily want good advice, i just want a guy to tell me what he thinks that i should do. and as i'm sure has been pointed out, this site does consist greatly of guys.
i sincerely apologize if i seem annoyed with any or all of you, but the thing is is that i would like to hear your opinions. i don't really care whether or not you think it might offend me, i asked for opinions, so why not can i get some?
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971go ahead and try, if it doesn't work, find some different friends. picture yourself three years from now without him, are you going to be hanging out in a cave on a mountaintop eating weeds and pining for him still, if it doesn't work out?
i don't necessarily want good advice, i just want a guy to tell me what he thinks that i should do. and as i'm sure has been pointed out, this site does consist greatly of guys.
i sincerely apologize if i seem annoyed with any or all of you, but the thing is is that i would like to hear your opinions. i don't really care whether or not you think it might offend me, i asked for opinions, so why not can i get some?
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971What are the things he does with you that he doesn't do with others?
what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's reall ...[text shortened]... if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971Bring him to a cheap hotel and [VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED].
what should a girl do when she is totally crazy about a guy friend of hers that she has known since she was a baby, and is her ex of about... say, ten years, give or take a couple? and they hang out all the time, but he's a total flirt. and he flirts with every girl. almost. but he does things with her that he doesn't do with other people... so she's reall ...[text shortened]... if he likes her as more than a friend, or only does these things because of their history...
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971Utter rubbish. Sorry.
but what if she's scared that it might make things just slightly awkward? above all else, friendship is something sacred to her...
That's fear-a-talkin'.
A friendship is based upon mutual feelings. If one feels more than the other, then the friendship is going to end in a big fiery ball of frustation anyways.
So, in your case. Take your chances. You've got nothing to lose.
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18 Feb 08
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundHere I am. 😵
It was a joke. The only question mark in your first post is after ......, give or take a couple ?
I think you should wait a while until Bad Wolf appears. He's about your age, and is into this sort of thing. I'm way to crumudgeony to give you decent advice.
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971What's your age
let's put it this way, would you rather lose one of your best friends completely because you took a risk and it didn't turn out right, or at least have some satisfaction in knowing that they care for you as a friend. even if you are constantly thinking about how you wish you were more, you would at least have that much...
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18 Feb 08
Originally posted by domino971Clearly you are desperate to tell him, and maybe you should, but I reccommend against sounding desperate, maybe stress a little the importance of you wanting to still be friends whatever happens as well. Other than that, I don't really know.
i don't necessarily want good advice, i just want a guy to tell me what he thinks that i should do. and as i'm sure has been pointed out, this site does consist greatly of guys.
i sincerely apologize if i seem annoyed with any or all of you, but the thing is is that i would like to hear your opinions. i don't really care whether or not you think it might offend me, i asked for opinions, so why not can i get some?
18 Feb 08
Originally posted by Pawn Qweenumm... if you think you were wined, dined, cinemaed and 'treated nicely' by a member of the opposite sex for some other reason than getting to bed ever, I'm afraid you've been quite gullible.
...taking her for a meal, to the cinema etc, and treating her nicely...
it just doesn't happen.
women. you'll never understand how our mind works.